EP 73: How to Get Your Kids to Stop Fighting

Are sibling squabbles driving you crazy? Do you crave a respite from all your kids’ bickering? Then listen in today as I answer another reader’s question: “How can I get my kids to stop fighting?”
Show Notes
VERSES CITED:
- 1 John 4:20-21 – “…the one who loves God should love his brother also.”
- Luke 6:31 – “Do to others as you would have them do to you.”
- Galatians 5:13 – “…do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love.”
- Proverbs 6:16-19 – “…things which the LORD hates…one who spreads strife among brothers.”
- Galatians 6:9 – “Let us not grow weary of doing good, in due season we shall reap.”
- Psalm 133:1 – “Behold how good and how pleasant it is For brothers to live together in unity!”
RELATED LINKS:
- EP 44: Cultivating Friendships between Siblings
- Stop Sibling Squabbles in 5 Simple Steps
- Help! My Kids Won’t Stop Fighting!
- Teaching Kindness (Free Printable)
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How to Keep Kids from Fighting
Today’s podcast is taken almost word for word from two posts I published on my family blog, listed above (Stop Sibling Squabbles in 5 Simple Steps and Help! My Kids Won’t Stop Fighting!) So if you’d rather read than listen, just click through the given links.
With a little patience, practice, pruning, and lots and lots of prayer, I’m convinced you will see a marked improvement in the relationships between your children, just as I have.
Do you have any recommendations for books that the children can read that has positive sibling relationships?
I agree that what they watch and read tends to have “worldly” thoughts on siblings relationship. And thought it would be nice for them to have books that foster that desire
Thank you.
Little House books by Laura Ingalls Wilder, the Penderwicks series by Jeanne Birdsall, Little Britches books by Ralph Moody, and the Vanderbeekers series by Karina Yan Glaser are the ones that immediately spring to mind.